A few years after I
was born, my Dad met a stranger who was new to our
small town. From the beginning, Dad was fascinated
with this enchanting newcomer and soon invited
him to live with our family. The stranger was
quickly accepted and was around from then on.
As I grew up, I
never questioned his place in my family. In my young
mind, he had a special niche.
My parents were complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and Dad taught me to obey.But the stranger... he was our storyteller. He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with adventures,mysteries and comedies.
My parents were complementary instructors: Mom taught me good from evil, and Dad taught me to obey.But the stranger... he was our storyteller. He would keep us spellbound for hours on end with adventures,mysteries and comedies.
If I wanted to know anything about politics,
history or science, he always knew the answers about the
past, understood the present and even seemed able to
predict the future!. He made me laugh, and he made me cry.
The stranger never stopped talking, but Dad didn't seem to mind. Sometimes, Mom would get up quietly while the rest
of us were shushing each other to listen to what he
had to say, and she would go to the kitchen for peace and
quiet. (I wonder now if she ever prayed for the stranger
to leave.) I guess... he was the best babysitter/childminder Parents could wish for... or maybe not!!
Dad ruled our household with certain moral convictions, but the stranger never felt obligated to honour them Profanity, for example, was not allowed in our home - not from us, our friends or any visitors. Our long time visitor,however, got away with four-letter words that burned my ears and made my dad squirm and my mother blush. My Dad didn't permit the liberal use of alcohol but the stranger encouraged us to try it on a regular basis.He made cigarettes look cool, cigars manly, and pipes distinguished. He talked freely (much too freely!) about sex. His comments were sometimes blatant sometimes suggestive, and generally embarrassing..
I now know that my early concepts about
relationships were influenced strongly by the stranger. Time after time, he opposed the values of my parents, yet he was seldom
rebuked ... And NEVER asked to leave.
More than fifty years have passed since the
stranger moved in with our family. He has blended right in and is
not nearly as fascinating as he was at first. Still, if you
could walk into my parents' lounge today, you would still find him
sitting over in his corner, waiting for someone to listen to him
talk and watch him draw his pictures.
His name?....
We just call him 'TV.
He has a wife now....we call her 'Computer.'
Their first child is "Cell Phone".
Second child "I Pod "
And recently born a Grandchildren:
IPAD and TABLET
We just call him 'TV.
He has a wife now....we call her 'Computer.'
Their first child is "Cell Phone".
Second child "I Pod "
And recently born a Grandchildren:
IPAD and TABLET
(Note: This should be required reading for every household!)
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